A couple of weeks ago, I innocently stepped into our church’s fellowship hall only to hear 250+ people scream, “SURPRISE!” Turns out my wife had orchestrated a two-month plot to surprise me (probably the most suspicious person you’ve ever met) two weeks prior to that grim anniversary of life—my 40th birthday.
By anyone’s estimation, it was a total success. Not only was I surprised that night by the overwhelming show of love and affection from those who had traveled from near and far to celebrate with me, I was equally unable to mentally flip through the last two months and find something, anything that might have made me say, “Ahh, so that’s what she was up to.” Nothing. Nada.
My wife, Ginger (if that IS her real name…?!), was quite proud of herself. Most of the rest of our evening was spent cataloguing the web of stealth and intrigue spun by one of the most good-natured, non-conniving people I know. Heretofore, my wife just hasn’t been capable of that level of deception. She told me about fake email addresses and super-secret Facebook groups, about hiding text messages and sneaking around my fickle schedule.
What struck me that night after the party was over, after the almost crippling disorientation that dominated my mood throughout (see the photo above for my split-second reaction upon entering the room), was the sheer beauty of the thing. So much time, so much planning, so much concern—just so that a group of people could tell me that they cared about me. I found my thoughts turning to the doctrine of predestination.
Yes, you read that correctly—predestination. Let me explain.Read more
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